My kids father abandoned me after I conceived. He said he wasn’t ready.

I went back to the village at my parents. I struggled, gave birth to my twins left them with my mum and came back to work.

After I got stable I picked them and live with them now. The are in S.2. Their father went on to marry but they haven’t been able to have kids.

He got in touch with me and wants a relationship with his kids. I talked to my kids

They say they are better off not knowing him. He’s trying to win them over in vain buying them gifts.

I want them to have a relationship with him.

What do I do?

Amelia