Is there such a thing as forgiving and forgetting?

I cheated on my husband but it was because he wasn’t there and he wouldn’t compliment me, yet I needed that attention.

I cheated with this guy who gave me all that and more but I don’t feel about him the way I feel about my husband.

I sent a wrong text to my husband and I he (my husband) caught me.

I explained to him why and he agreed to move past it and he took me back but he isn’t the same man I knew.

How do I win him back?” ~Mercy