Am in a complex situation, I find myself torn between the loyalty and support of my long-time girlfriend, who has stood by me through thick and thin, and the pressures imposed by her rich family.

She got a stable job with monthly earnings exceeding 5 million, yet I earn just below 2M.

The expectations from her well-off family for an official marriage have created a considerable challenge for me as they want just too much for me to deserve to be their daughter’s husband.

Frustration led me to seek solace elsewhere, and I began a clandestine relationship with my former boss—a woman of my age who is supportive, respectful, and ready to fully commit.

Unlike my girlfriend’s family, she has welcomed me into her life, introducing me to her relatives and expressing a willingness to take our relationship to the next level.

However, the complexity intensified as my girlfriend walked through the fire for me, enduring familial disapproval and consistently supporting me.

The dilemma is compounded by the fact that the new person in my life has started suspecting that something is amiss.

I am in desperate need of advice on how to navigate this complex web of emotions, loyalty, and external pressures.

Munyambe mumpe kumagezi.