My name is Hellen, iam feeling very confused! I have had this bestie for years, he really has been there for me and bailed me out financially more times than i can remember but that’s all he was, a friend!

Three months ago, i started dating this guy from my workplace and after a little while he asked we do a kwanjula!

I was excited but my bestie then started pointing out everything that could be wrong with the guy to the point of calling up some of the man`s exes!

My shock came this week when he told me he wants me for himself & has always been shy to say.

He says its important for friendship before marriage& he is better qualified.

He is handsome so I wouldn’t mind him, but what if he just wants me because another guy is interested?? Please Advise