My name is Grace, over a year ago we arranged an introduction and the father of my 2 children never showed up!

I had already known that he had another wife but i too, sought that he is at least officially known to my people.

It was so embarrassing and i even battled thoughts of suicide.

He kept supporting his children and we stopped meeting for intimacy.

3months ago his wife succumbed to cancer, and he came explaining that his wife had been doing badly during introduction time and he states that he now can do the introduction and a wedding, if im still willing.

Ive got his kids and it would make sense but i feel like its very slippery!

Please Advise.