I don’t over do it but I believe it is necessary at times. My husband believes in telling the children to go to the bedroom and think about what you have done and then come back and apologize.

When I cane them, he gets so angry and sides with the children. The children are even taking advantage of our disagreement.

They now even have the audacity to report me to the father when I cane them. I am tired of fighting over caning them but I think they will get spoilt if we don’t.

Please help me find ways to deal with this matter.

Our children are two boys aged 10 and 9.