My boyfriend doesn’t allow me to visit him and sleep over at his place.

You can’t believe we’ve been together for almost two years but I’ve never slept at this man’s place.

The most he does is allow me to visit for a few hours and then asks me to leave or pretends he has somewhere to be and can’t leave me in the house alone.

Every time we fight about this, his reason is that he can’t allow me to stay there until we are married. What kind of reasoning is this?

I think he has other women coming over at his place because why else would he refuse?

I have tried catching him there by showing up unexpected but he is either not home or he is alone and we end up fighting. Why can’t he allow me to sleep there?

Lisa