My wife doesn’t have boundaries.

Her friends take up a lot of her time and money and yet she doesn’t seem to be their priority.

Many times she has chosen friends over family time. I feel sorry for her because I think this is some kind of search for validation but it gets annoying and no matter how much you talk, or how much her friends disappoint her, she never learns.

She’s always comparing herself to them. I don’t know how to help her anymore.

Please advise.