My name is Alex., l badly need your help .! .

My issue is i have a wife and we have two kids but since 2018 l have been providing her with everything because she was nursing our kids

now we are in 2024 and our first kid is 6years while another one is 3years and they both go to international schools (that my wife chose for them yet they are expensive ) and my wife doesn’t want to work even

if i get her something to do .now am fade up with her because she is not supportive at all and remember we have bills to pay i.e school fees,water,power,life insurance and more and it’s all on me.

My feelings for her are started to go down .!

please advise me on how to make her understand that working is important? Or l let her go?

Because im fade up guys , it’s too much for me . Or maybe she’s tired of me ?