My partner, the father of my two children spends all his money on buying himself expensive clothes, perfumes, shoes and phones.

We haven’t paid rent for two months but he just bought new clothes which cost at least one month of rent.

Many times we don’t even have food. I have to borrow items from a nearby shop. I have a job but it pays very little.

That little money is what we usually survive on and borrowing from friends. I don’t know what is wrong with him.

I have talked to him about it and according to him, his image comes first everything else can be dealt with later.

His family says he has always been like this.